I think that's the right approach. It's hard to draw a line for a complex topic that is subject to wide interpretation. At the same time, it's not unreasonable to say that posters may be banned in cases where they are "repeatedly offensive and contemptuous of (you) and this forum." That would be comparable to a supervisor telling a work group, "Hey, I like to be reasonable and work with people, but don't confuse that with me being a pushover and if you happen to get confused, yes, you can be fired."John wrote: I really don't like to ban people, though I could do that if someone
were repeatedly offensive and contemptuous of me and this forum.
I'm not in favor of sequestering posts but since this isn't how you make your living or even the main part of this site it may be necessary due to time constraints. For example, if you told me you were moving some of my posts to "Higgenbotham's Dark Age" thread, I would feel you were hindering my expression a bit (I deliberately left out the word "free" because, after all, this is your site). On the other hand, I could see your reason for doing so, as the appropriateness of many topics is subject to wide interpretation, as previously stated.
I would really like to see what I post here draw a few dozen thoughtful and collaborative posters like Lily and Old1953 but apparently that is not the world we live in. And that in and of itself is useful to know.