The car driving analogy that I posted represents, I believe, the
dynamic when there's an incompetent Gen-X manager and Boomer employee.
How does that scenario change when there's an incompetent Boomer
manager?
Suppose you're talking to your incompetent Boomer boss about how
to drive a car.
The Boomer will know how to put the key in the lock, start the car,
and drive it. He'll even know how to put gas in the car.
You say to him, "Don't forget to change the oil every 4,000 miles!"
The Boomer doesn't know what you're talking about, but he blows
you off and ignores you. He tells you that he knows all about cars,
and they need gas, but not oil.
One day his transmission fails, and he blames you for not telling
him more clearly that he needed to change the oil. Or, he says
that he knew all along that the oil had to be changed, but
he thought you were taking care of it.
The above scenario is roughly the same, no matter what generation
you (the employee) are in.
This scenario differs from the incompetent Gen-X manager scenario
in these ways:
- Unlike the Gen-Xer, the Boomer does not get angry and accuse you
of not respecting him. This anger about respect is pretty much
a Gen-X thing, in my experience. I've had Boomers get angry at
me, of course, but I can't recall ever having a Boomer accuse me
of not respectiving him.
- The incompetent Gen-Xer sees the suggestion to change oil as
"endlessly dissecting," to use Higgie's words, and is angry and
hostile at the suggestion. The incompetent Boomer sees it something
irrelevant or mistaken, and simply ignores it.
- Neither the Gen-Xer nor the Boomer puts oil in his car. However,
the Boomer's failure is due to passive arrogance and stupidity, while
the Gen-Xer's failure is due to actively refusing to do something that
a Boomer suggests.
- The Gen-Xer looks for a way to get revenge; the Boomer does
not.
The next to last point is highly relevant to the financial crisis. As
I've been writing for years, the 1990s tech bubble was caused by
passive stupidity of Boomers, making investments in dotcom companies
that didn't make sense, while the credit bubble of the 2000s was
caused by purposeful fraud by Gen-Xers.
I was having a conversation with a Millennial software engineer the
other day, and it reminded of what a pleasure it is to be talking to
someone who's competent. He was showing me the software he had
written, which was pretty cool, and at different times I would tell
him how cool it was, or I'd ask him why he didn't do it a different
way, or I'd "endlessly dissect" something to understand it better, or
I'd mention something that I've done in the past, or I'd make a joke
about something.
It's a real joy to have such a conversation with a competent
Boomer or Millennial software engineer or manager. It's a lot of
fun, and everything goes well.
But as soon as you're talking to a Gen-Xer, everything is a land mine.
If you suggest a different approach, then you're insulting him and
don't respect him. If you ask about details, then you're "endlessly
dissecting." If you make a joke, or you brag about something you've
done, then you get screamed at for being arrogant. It's a total
nightmare.
Here's a good question that's going through my mind: How do Gen-Xers
ever manage to get along with one another with those attitudes?
If I use the Breitling commercial as a template, then I have to assume
that Gen-Xers screw with one another all the time, and take pleasure
in doing so, but then recover quickly when they get screwed with,
because they expect to be screwed with.
John