by tx2 » Fri Feb 22, 2013 1:56 pm
Dear John,
Thank you for your reply. Take it easy, the good thing is that you are dealing with a man, not a woman, I hope that make you feel a little better.
"This is so outrageous that it's hard for me to figure out where to
start.
You say that you like and respect what I write, except when I
criticize China.
So I assume you like it when I criticize America, or criticize Greece,
or criticize France, or criticize Egypt, or criticize Israel, or
criticize Iran, or criticize Pakistan, or criticize Russia, or
criticize Kenya, or criticize Wall Street. You like and respect those
criticisms.
I comment on dozens of countries around the world, and most of my
comments are criticisms. That's perfectly OK with you. You like
that.
But criticize China? Oh, no. You don't like that. You want me to
single out China for special treatment, and make China the only
country in the world that I don't criticize. Why do you think I would
EVER agree to that?"
This is wrong. I said I respected you and also I said I responded only because you post China negatively with high frequency and could mislead the reader and increase the tension. I said i didn't expect you change anything but it's my responsibility to give you feedback. First of all, how many times do you see tx on your message board? I read your articles very often and did not post a single word during past ~2years. Even I did before, usually two, one was my opinion and this other was thank you message because you were so nice to respond me, I sincerely thank you for that. On the other hand, how many times do you write about China? I understand you don't create these events relate to China, you report. That's why I don't post (I admit I did the day before yesterday and today). 2) I have to emphasize this, it takes a really really sick person to really enjoy the negative news as bad as people dying or on their way to die around world. How can I enjoy if I learn that my children will be part of it? 3) I didn't mention in my previous response, I respect you because you are generally not only a person with high integrity, but also an extremely hard worker, I can't write everyday, not even once a week. I only think there is a better way to do this. I also understand you are trying to raise the public awareness by creating this website to get people prepared, the side affect is that you may increase the tension without your notice. Increasing hatred only hurts both sides. People respond to negative news and War is a bunch of nice people against another.
"Your own remarks illustrate the same problem. You could have
criticized and condemned the generals' remarks. You could have
written to me, "John, on behalf of all Chinese people, I apologize to
you and all Americans for the outrageous remarks made by the Chinese
generals."
But you didn't do that. Instead of criticizing the generals'
war-mongering comments, you criticize me and call me a "fool" for
MERELY QUOTING the Chinese generals' remarks. So as far as you're
concerned, the Chinese generals can threaten war all they want, and
that's perfectly OK with you. You would never criticize the Chinese
generals. You criticize me for QUOTING the Chinese generals. That's
the height of hypocrisy."
I was not trained to represent generals, the president when I was young in China. it's simply not the way how generations grew up in that era there got educated. Maybe this is something I should learn here, thank you for pointing this out. I agree with you, military threat is not the right way to do, I don't support that. Again, as I mentioned, increasing hatred only hurts both sides, doesn't matter how to do it.
"During WW II, after the Japanese bombed Pearl Harbor, and after the
Japanese maimed and tortured and murdered Americans on the Bataan
Death March, there was no Holocaust against the Japanese. Many
Japanese-Americans were interned in camps, and even this is still
considered to be a major historical embarrassment for America. But
there was no Holocaust."
I give credit to American.
It doesn't take a Holocaust to make life miserable. Do you think these innocent Japanese-American were proud and happy to live in the camps? They would be talking about what later MLK talked about everybody was equal? Children, even they were born in the United States, were happy in the camp? Shame, depression, discriminated feeling, worthless feeling, lost directions, all the physical and psychological pain etc. These Japanese-Americans had to work extreme extremely harder than their blond hair peers to only get food to survive. Dignity is not the word in their dictionary. They also had to fight hard against their past Japanese dude HARD to earn words like good job, well done by their boss. How about that? that's the torture to the human nature. True it may not mainly caused by American, but war did have direct extremely negative impact on them.
"Even though you don't care about politics, and you don't want to think
about it, I believe that in your heart you're very well aware that
China is planning to attack the United States."
I care, maybe not 13 years ago, thank for part of your help. This country is the place for people to care about the politics, no doubt in my mind and people like me, no matter where you are from, can change. Regarding if I am fully aware that China is planning to attack the United States, my understanding is that as long as a country, any country in the universe has a military buildup, it's against it's enemy. I am also fully aware that Chinese people, traditionally, treat western people including from USA much much better than treat themselves. This is general from top leader to civilian. A lot of Chinese will give their last piece of bread to you if that means they die and you survive. I am not kidding here.
"I don't blame you for not wanting to think about it, because you know that at some point you
and other Chinese-Americans are going to have to make a choice whether
to betray China or to betray the United States. I hope you find a way
to make the right choice."
So you are taking pleasure on other people's difficulty? You happened to be born in this nation, so? You were lucky because your grandparents or grand grandparents decided to live here. Will you laugh at your first generation ancestor? I am not happy with the words you chose but I understand you live in an angry world.
I have already made my choice the very first day. True, it is a hard choice if what you are predicting becomes reality. This country, United States, is a country respect human nature. I won't shame even at that time I will have complex feeling. People fight for you not because you force them to fight for you, is because you have something worth their fight.
Again, I am a man. take it easy.
Sincerely,
tx
Dear John,
Thank you for your reply. Take it easy, the good thing is that you are dealing with a man, not a woman, I hope that make you feel a little better.
"This is so outrageous that it's hard for me to figure out where to
start.
You say that you like and respect what I write, except when I
criticize China.
So I assume you like it when I criticize America, or criticize Greece,
or criticize France, or criticize Egypt, or criticize Israel, or
criticize Iran, or criticize Pakistan, or criticize Russia, or
criticize Kenya, or criticize Wall Street. You like and respect those
criticisms.
I comment on dozens of countries around the world, and most of my
comments are criticisms. That's perfectly OK with you. You like
that.
But criticize China? Oh, no. You don't like that. You want me to
single out China for special treatment, and make China the only
country in the world that I don't criticize. Why do you think I would
EVER agree to that?"
This is wrong. I said I respected you and also I said I responded only because you post China negatively with high frequency and could mislead the reader and increase the tension. I said i didn't expect you change anything but it's my responsibility to give you feedback. First of all, how many times do you see tx on your message board? I read your articles very often and did not post a single word during past ~2years. Even I did before, usually two, one was my opinion and this other was thank you message because you were so nice to respond me, I sincerely thank you for that. On the other hand, how many times do you write about China? I understand you don't create these events relate to China, you report. That's why I don't post (I admit I did the day before yesterday and today). 2) I have to emphasize this, it takes a really really sick person to really enjoy the negative news as bad as people dying or on their way to die around world. How can I enjoy if I learn that my children will be part of it? 3) I didn't mention in my previous response, I respect you because you are generally not only a person with high integrity, but also an extremely hard worker, I can't write everyday, not even once a week. I only think there is a better way to do this. I also understand you are trying to raise the public awareness by creating this website to get people prepared, the side affect is that you may increase the tension without your notice. Increasing hatred only hurts both sides. People respond to negative news and War is a bunch of nice people against another.
"Your own remarks illustrate the same problem. You could have
criticized and condemned the generals' remarks. You could have
written to me, "John, on behalf of all Chinese people, I apologize to
you and all Americans for the outrageous remarks made by the Chinese
generals."
But you didn't do that. Instead of criticizing the generals'
war-mongering comments, you criticize me and call me a "fool" for
MERELY QUOTING the Chinese generals' remarks. So as far as you're
concerned, the Chinese generals can threaten war all they want, and
that's perfectly OK with you. You would never criticize the Chinese
generals. You criticize me for QUOTING the Chinese generals. That's
the height of hypocrisy."
I was not trained to represent generals, the president when I was young in China. it's simply not the way how generations grew up in that era there got educated. Maybe this is something I should learn here, thank you for pointing this out. I agree with you, military threat is not the right way to do, I don't support that. Again, as I mentioned, increasing hatred only hurts both sides, doesn't matter how to do it.
"During WW II, after the Japanese bombed Pearl Harbor, and after the
Japanese maimed and tortured and murdered Americans on the Bataan
Death March, there was no Holocaust against the Japanese. Many
Japanese-Americans were interned in camps, and even this is still
considered to be a major historical embarrassment for America. But
there was no Holocaust."
I give credit to American.
It doesn't take a Holocaust to make life miserable. Do you think these innocent Japanese-American were proud and happy to live in the camps? They would be talking about what later MLK talked about everybody was equal? Children, even they were born in the United States, were happy in the camp? Shame, depression, discriminated feeling, worthless feeling, lost directions, all the physical and psychological pain etc. These Japanese-Americans had to work extreme extremely harder than their blond hair peers to only get food to survive. Dignity is not the word in their dictionary. They also had to fight hard against their past Japanese dude HARD to earn words like good job, well done by their boss. How about that? that's the torture to the human nature. True it may not mainly caused by American, but war did have direct extremely negative impact on them.
"Even though you don't care about politics, and you don't want to think
about it, I believe that in your heart you're very well aware that
China is planning to attack the United States."
I care, maybe not 13 years ago, thank for part of your help. This country is the place for people to care about the politics, no doubt in my mind and people like me, no matter where you are from, can change. Regarding if I am fully aware that China is planning to attack the United States, my understanding is that as long as a country, any country in the universe has a military buildup, it's against it's enemy. I am also fully aware that Chinese people, traditionally, treat western people including from USA much much better than treat themselves. This is general from top leader to civilian. A lot of Chinese will give their last piece of bread to you if that means they die and you survive. I am not kidding here.
"I don't blame you for not wanting to think about it, because you know that at some point you
and other Chinese-Americans are going to have to make a choice whether
to betray China or to betray the United States. I hope you find a way
to make the right choice."
So you are taking pleasure on other people's difficulty? You happened to be born in this nation, so? You were lucky because your grandparents or grand grandparents decided to live here. Will you laugh at your first generation ancestor? I am not happy with the words you chose but I understand you live in an angry world.
I have already made my choice the very first day. True, it is a hard choice if what you are predicting becomes reality. This country, United States, is a country respect human nature. I won't shame even at that time I will have complex feeling. People fight for you not because you force them to fight for you, is because you have something worth their fight.
Again, I am a man. take it easy.
Sincerely,
tx