In my greater family we have had lots of kids but no abortions that I know of. Kids are not hard, but considered a blessing. We have problems, but we solve them, work through them, not whining about them endlessly. Life is good, not hard.Higgenbotham wrote: ↑Sun Oct 08, 2023 1:30 pmGood grief, Bob. People aren't supposed to have kids because it's too hard? Is that the candy ass liberal justification for abortion?
A few weeks ago my uncle died, and I went to the memorial service. I wound up showing my genealogy book to two others, This included a direct link to four people on the Mayflower. (Ironically, we met at the restaurant Alden House, but my link to John Alden of the Mayflower was on the other side of the family. Also, my niece mentioned in the last note descended from the same four on both sides of her family.) They were fascinated by the page on British royal family around the first Elizabeth’s time. There were also the links to three presidents (Adams, Adams and Lincoln).
It was a bit odd, though. The two I showed the book to were an asian and a latino. I happened to know we had no hereditary link to either group. Turns out one cousin who couldn’t have children had gone to an adoption agency for kids needing asylum. Blessings all around. Nice well adjusted and seemingly well paired young adults.
If you choose problems you can handle, avoid ones you can’t, life is good. It seems you chose otherwise, to ignore problems, to avoid seeing them solved, ran into some unsolvable problems. Not so good.
Read S&H. America has had her crises. We worked through them. In solving them, we found three new births of freedom, currently working on a fourth. Those who wanted the problems to continue, for society to remain the same, collapsed. Those that tried to solve the problems did solve them. Reading the tea leaves, we seem to be following that pattern again.
You can wail all you want on your fall from the cliff about how you are collapsing. Look for me on the top of the cliff, shaking my head, sighing.